So I try to keep my blog cheery, fun, upbeat, full of sunshine… well life is not always like a new pair of jimmy choos….. Has anyone out there had someone say something very hateful or started some horrible rumor? Well I can’t for the life of me understand how people can be so malicious. I really try to ignore people who behave like that and do not give them any response to their childish behavior, but sometimes you just wanna speak your mind. I am trying to stay strong… I need a big glass of this
Ps. Thank you SO much for your sweet comments on the post below… they made this frown turn upside down : )
Cheer up buttercup….. their just Jealous! =)
i need a big glass of that too! But I just moved somewhere that only says wine in liquor stores…>:(
About the rumors..some people just can't stand to see someone else happy either because they are miserable or just have problems in general..I always tell everyone.."I am not a psychiatrist, I realy don't care how other people think" LOL
*sells wine …lol
Sorry to hear somebody is being mean. It's just silly. I don't understand why people have to be so awful sometimes.
You are Fabulous!
Tara~ I'd have to saw that if someone were saying anything unkind about you or were starting rumors, they're most likely jealous of you. I mean, seriously! You're utterly gorg, super super sweet, have a fab family & Sadie Jane (I die!) + you wear the best dresses. Poo on that poor, poor person. Bitter pill, jealousy is!
I think you're marvelous & it looks like the fashion show was a HUGE hit!
Aw 🙁 I hope everything is ok girl!
I am from a small town and rumors and mean girls are inevitable! I remember asking my Mom to just send me to Switzerland! LOL!
I haven't had too much drama in my life lately, minus my sister! But that took many months of weeding out "friends" people who brought me down, or we're two faced. Sometimes I still never know when I can trust a person… *sigh*
I hope you get your big glass of vino (and one for me too!)!!! Oh and I am praying for Gossip Girl to be extra good for you tonight- it may help take away some of the gossip that is going around in your life 😉 xo
Some people are just jealous!
You are completely right in not giving these jealous individuals the time of day. Just keep your head up because you have a lot of readers who absolutely love you and your blog! 🙂
🙁 I hate when other people get in the way of your happiness. I have been dealing with some of that too lately. Keep your head up and be thankful of what you have! Good to know that it is not all ponys and rainbows for you all the time too! lol (that saying always makes me laugh.)
PS dont forget to check out that song. This is us … you will love it.
Ugh. There has been so much hate around on the *bloggy world*. Shame, shame, shame on these people who are obviously sad and miserable people that need to bring others down to make themselves feel better. *sigh* Sorry that you have felt the heat of all the hatred. 🙁 Don't let the haters get to you, I think you are as sweet as can be. Your blog is a little piece of fabulousness for me everyday! 🙂
Hi Tara,
Why would anyone say hurtful comments to you. You are a kind soul and love life and anyone that reads your blog or knows you in person should know this about you. Keep smiling and know that I think you are great!
Melissa
Some people are just so mean and rude. I think you're fabulous. Just ignore them…and enjoy the glass of wine!!!
Whatever it is, don't let it get to you!! I know it's hard, but some people are just mean for the sake of being mean.
And you always have your bloggy friends to cheer you up!
Hold your head high, girl!
Sweetie i have been in these shoes before and it happens ALL too often. Girls can be catty!!! I hate it…why can't everyone just get along right??!!
I too try to ignore it, but when you know that you're at the end of the firing squad it's hard. Especially when these rumors are UNTRUE as they ALWAYS are. I believe that people thrive on drama and love to stir it up.
I hope it isn't too harsh and in the end, they will get their karma that's coming to them :)- Hang in there girl…WE LOVE YOU!!!
Hope things get better for you. I had someone be really nasty to me at work last week. I ended up sitting in my car crying for like 20 minutes! some people are just hateful people. I'm sorry you're upset.
if we only lived in the same town…ill get to see you soon my little strawberry shortcake! ill give you a big hug and we'll catch up over a nice margarita at la huerta! 11 days missy!!
It's something I struggle with all the time, but ultimately, at the end of the day, only thing that matters is what YOU know and feel about yourself. That's the one thing you have control over. Try to focus on that and know that regardless of what one loser might have to say about you, it doesn't really matter at all.
Sorry you are dealing with some drama right now. That's no fun! Is it something through the blog world or personal? I hope the bloggers aren't the ones making you feel upset!
Cheer up and have a glass, or several glasses of wine tonight 🙂
you are gorgeous- inside and out.
dont sweat the small stuff, lovee. you have a fabulous and doting hus, a family who CLEARLY loves you and is proud of you, and more friends than you could possibly know what to do with. you have your brains, kindness, and health.
and from this blog- you have friends in states across the country. if need be, we can track a bitch down no matter where she is.
regarding the wine though-
enjoy!
wine is very rarely a bad idea.
WHAT!!! lets go get em!!!!!!! if anyone is saying anything #1 they are jealous and #2 need to get a damn life!!!!
dont worry about those haters! You are great and wonderful! ignore them- you too good to deal with that crap!
words can hurt, words last, words can be so evil. People need to understand that there are some things that cannot be taken back.
I am so sorry.
and you look so delish below in the pics!
Girl, I'm totally with you. My own family pulls those stunts. I have learned to just blow it off because they are just jealous or resenting me for whatever reasons. You are just precious, and some people must not like the competition, even though life isn't a competition. 🙂 No worries! I just said yesterday how I miss martinis in the cove to blow off the day! 🙂
Girl, all us with blogs totally know what you mean!!
Cheer up!! You are a doll and just GEORG!!
Smile, be the bigger girl, act like it dont bother you and it will all go away!! The best way to get over that stuff is to act like ti never happened, and just forget about it!! That makes the person talking about you feel so wrong for being so mean!!!
You rock and keep that head up!!!!
You got lots of girlies out there who just adore you!!! 🙂
Unfortunately I do know what you mean. Sometimes it's easier said than done though- being the bigger person and ignoring it.
Enjoy that glass of wine & just keep rockin (=
hang in there! i agree with you.. I'm sure it's all jealousy!
boo! I hate rumors. People also need to mind their own business! I hope it all passes soon! Enjoy your vino!
Just hold your pretty head up and keep smiling and know how many people you have out there that love you and are here for you!!!!!
Love ya!
Just hold your pretty head up and keep smiling and know how many people you have out there that love you and are here for you!!!!!
Love ya!
You don't let it get to you one bit! Just keep being the cute, fun, and happy you and forget about any nonsense=)! Hugs! (and I'll have a glass of yummy wine with you=)!)
What has your mother always told you? Take the high road, it is always the RIGHT thing to do and you never go wrong doing the RIGHT thing! The people that know and love you know better than stupid rumors anyway! Besides, I WILL take 'em down if I need to ….!
some people are just unhappy and feel the need to try and bring others down with them that are not feeling the way they do. AND some people need to just get a life because they have nothing better to do!
Keep your head up and enjoy your wine. YUMMY!!!
cheer up papercup! I would come and have a bottle of wine with you!
I always say spreading rumors says far more about the gossip monger than it does the person gossiping. Stay positive!
LOL I meant to say it says far more about the one gossiping than the one gossiped about. Monday mumbles on me!(I am rolling my eyes at myself right now,lol)
Don't let them bring you down!!
They must be jealous of how awesome you are! 🙂
Stay your positive self! Just know if you need some more wine head out to the west coast. Wine country is awesome out this way!
Our precious Tara,
Honey I am so sorry that this has happened to you, but you know I'm sure it won't be the last time. Why not, you ask, because just like your friends above me say, this viciousness comes from Jealousy. I love that you keep your blog all happy go lucky, and I treasure that you come to us, your bloggy admirers for comfort when you are hurt. I actually once hated you for the white shirt with no back myself ( I say this with much love.)You are beautiful, charming, and very very dear. If I can count on one thing, it's a comment from you when I think no one is reading. Pick your pretty little head up, smile, and tell them to kiss your ass. Do it, at least they'll respect you! We love you girl, and we're rooting for you!
Love,
Bumpkin Lisa
Awww, you stay strong pretty girl!! Rumors come from people who need something to fill an ugly void inside of them…hold your head high and dont you ever let them be satisfied. Xoxo!
It sucks that people can be so negative towards you for whatever reason! I have been there too! Just know this will pass! And you are fabulous!
have some WINE!! They are just JEALOUS!!! and their jealousy makes them ugly… on the inside and out!!
Those people are obviously lame! They are projecting their issues onto you. Good for you for being the bigger person 🙂
Okay first of all.. how old are we? Second of all, people that do talk and make up crap are jealous! There is no need for it!
You are precious and the most kind, giving, loving, loyal person I know.
You coming to see me in the hospital after I had avery and giving me that precious ring touched my heart. You have a heart of gold.. noone should touch that!
OMG, who is bothering you?? Just tell me and I'll go twist there ass into a pretzel! People are so immature sometimes, don't let it get to you girl, you are fabulous! I said so!!!
LOVE all the pictures from the fashion show!! You are too pretty girl! 🙂
I look at it this way, you must be pretty dang important for someone who dislikes you to take the time out of their day to bring you up.. mention your name or even think about lies to say about You! Jelousy is a sign of the insecure. 😉
GOD WAS ONLY MENT TO JUDGE US, SO PEOPLE QUIT HATIN!
GOD Bless you Tara!!
I hate people who do that. It happens to everyone–unfortunately we don't escape it when we're out of high school like we thought. Keep positive, go hug your Sadie and hubs. 🙂
This is crazy. What is going on? This is the first I've heard of this. We need to talk. When is a good time for you? Lunch or dinner tomorrow or soon?
I don't know what you are going through, but I am so sorry. Drama is absolutely no fun, and rumors are just horrible. As others said, usually rumors are started from jealousy.
Girl, i totally understand. The same thing happend to me this weekend and it is so unreal, at 26 years old, I still have to deal with this. Keep your chin up!! 🙂
People can be such jerks. I haven't had anything nasty spread about me since high school, and I'm sorry you're having to deal which such immature behavior at this point in life. As everyone else has said, they're probably just jealous. Keep being fabulous 🙂
Mmm that wine looks yummy, I'll have some of that too!=)
I just want to say I'll always be there for you through it, your my best friend. I love & adore you, my life wouldn't be the same without you & I love you how you are! Rumors are lies & real friends know the real you & you are a very special chickita. I love you! 🙂
PS-All these hot ladies are right, they are jealous. Ignore haters! 🙂
Turn that beautiful cheek, girly!! Unfortunately, jealously gets the best of immature people sometimes and reares it's ugly head through nasty rumors, name-calling, etc. You know the truth… and so do all your true friends!! Don't even worry about it – it will eat you alive if you let it!! =)
Chin up girl! Don't let others get you down!!
Boo to anyone picking on you! Yours is one of my favorite blogs to read so ignore the dramz and keep doing what you do! Only the best blogs attract haters! Lol!
some people do that to make themselves feel better!! You are a great person and anyone spreading nasty rumors well they are just NASTY!
yall are the best!!! : )
Love Ashley's comment!! Wish I knew you in person to say those things too… but I have a feeling you're exactly like that!!!
Don't let mean people steal your energy!! They just want a piece of you, and don't allow them to have that power over you. Life is too short to deal with toxic people.
Stay with those who keep you feeling happy and good…. and who will BRING you the wine if need be!
🙂